Section 30about 7 min · no rush

A gentle note before you read: this chapter carries heavy material. Read at your own pace; stopping partway and coming back is allowed.

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Ethics, self-care & professional growth

Grounded in the ACA Code of Ethics (the code in the CTEVT course pack) and the curriculum's ethics tasks. Ethics is not a list to memorise; it is how trust is manufactured, session after session.

The seven working principles

CTEVT PSC curriculum
PrincipleWhat it demands (ACA sections)The Nepali edge-case
Client welfare firstDignity and welfare above everything, including the family's wishes (A.1)When parents demand "fix him", the client is still the young person
Informed consentExplain, verbally and simply: what counselling is, risks, fees, limits; ongoing, not one-time (A.2)Low literacy → consent by clear conversation, witnessed; minors → assent + guardian consent, weighed against the young person's growing capacity, and never when the guardian is the source of harm
Confidentiality & its limitsNothing shared without consent: EXCEPT serious foreseeable harm to self or others, child abuse, or court order; disclose the minimum (B.1–B.2)In a small village everyone knows your door; where you park, who greets you: all leak. Session one covers the limits
Boundaries & dual relationshipsNo sexual/romantic contact, current or recent former clients (A.5); avoid overlapping roles; gifts weighed culturally (A.10.f)Dual relationships are unavoidable in villages: manage them openly and in supervision rather than pretending they don't exist; a khada or fruit may be respect, cash is not
Competence & its boundariesPractice only what you are trained for; know your referral line; monitor your effectiveness (C.2)You are the only "mental health person" for hours in any direction: the temptation to exceed competence is the ethical test of the job
NondiscriminationNo discrimination by caste, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexuality, disability, status (C.5)Caste is the test Nepal adds: the same cup of tea, the same chair, the same touch, for every client
Records & honestyAccurate, secure, code-numbered records; honest representation of your qualifications (A.1.b, C.4)"Counselor" ≠ "doctor": never let a community upgrade your title

Template in the CTEVT course pack: the Nepali informed-consent form (Nepali_Psychosocial_Informed_Consent_Form) covers exactly what this row requires: voluntary participation and the right to stop, confidentiality and its legal/safety limits, written consent before sharing information, referral possibility, no guaranteed outcome, and guardian signature for minors. Practise explaining every line aloud in plain Nepali.

Self-care is an ethical duty, not a luxury (ACA C.2.g: impairment). Listening to trauma wears the listener: secondary traumatic stress and burnout (exhaustion, cynicism, dread of clients) impair the service.

The curriculum's professionalism list is your maintenance schedule:

  • Regular supervision
  • Peer support
  • Reading and refresher training
  • Reasonable caseload
  • The same sleep, movement, boundaries, and connection you prescribe to clients
  • Care-for-caregiver training
  • Knowing when to pause practice

Growth: read journals, consult seniors, join professional associations, attend ToT and higher studies, advocate for counselling services.

Ethical dilemmas: argue each side

1) Your cousin's wife books a session. 2) A 15-year-old discloses abuse but begs you to tell no one. 3) A client's father offers you a goat at Dashain. 4) A client with psychosis refuses referral and the family asks you to "just keep counselling him". For each: which principles collide, what does the code say, and what do you actually do in a Nepali district?

Model reasoning: the 15-year-old scenario

Here the principles collide. The client's right to confidentiality under B.1 says nothing is shared without consent. But A.1 demands that client welfare comes first, and the mandatory reporting duty requires disclosure to protect a child from abuse.

The code does not leave this to your judgment alone. When a child is at risk, the duty to protect overrides confidentiality. You explain the limit to the young person in session one: you cannot promise that what she tells you will stay secret if she is being harmed.

You document the disclosure in the case notes, refer the case to child protection services, and bring the situation to supervision. The outcome is that the child receives protection, the family is supported through the referral process, and the therapeutic relationship is preserved by being honest about the limit from the start.

The APA's five principles, and a ladder for hard decisions

CTEVT PSC curriculum

The class notes teach the American Psychological Association code alongside the ACA's. Its five general principles are aspirations (what a good counselor reaches for); its ethical standards are enforceable rules. The seven working principles above are the standards in daily clothes.

PrincipleIn one lineWhere it bites in Nepal
A · Beneficence and nonmaleficenceDo good, and above all do no harm; look after your own burnout before it reaches the clientOne counselor for a whole district: rest is part of the job
B · Fidelity and responsibilityBe trustworthy, know your role, own your duty to the communitySay clearly what you are and are not; keep the referral promise
C · IntegrityHonest, accurate, no deception or inflated credentials"Counselor" stays "counselor" on the signboard
D · JusticeFair access and equal quality for everyone; watch your own biasCaste, language, distance from the road
E · Respect for rights and dignityPrivacy, self-determination, cultural identityThe client decides, even when the family speaks first

Confidentiality's three mandatory limits, in the APA's words:

  1. Imminent danger to self or others (the "duty to warn")
  2. Suspected abuse or neglect of a child, elder, or vulnerable adult
  3. A binding legal order

When a dilemma has no clean answer, climb the ladder:

  1. Name the conflict precisely; code against law against client wish
  2. Map the context: culture, vulnerability, power, who else is affected
  3. Consult: the code, the law, your supervisor
  4. List the options and weigh each one's consequences
  5. Act, and write down what you decided and why
Key points
  1. Client welfare first, informed consent, confidentiality with its limits, boundaries, competence, nondiscrimination, honest records: the seven working principles.
  2. Confidentiality yields only to imminent danger, child abuse, or a legal order, and then only the minimum needed.
  3. Self-care is an ethical duty: supervision, rest and boundaries keep the counselor safe for the client.
Quick check

Three friendly questions to settle what you just read. This is reassurance, not a test: a wrong tap is part of learning, and you can try again.

Confidentiality may be broken when:

In a village where everyone knows you, dual relationships are:

Counselor self-care is:

Learn more

Pick one, not all.

CodeACA Code of Ethics: sections A, B, C: the document in the CTEVT course pack; read A and B before your first client.
Video · 15 minEverything you think you know about addiction is wrong: an ethics lesson disguised as an addiction talk: connection over judgment. Its "connection" thesis is contested; take it as a lens, not a finding.
BookIrvin Yalom, The Gift of Therapy: 85 short chapters of humane craft wisdom; read one per day.

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